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We’ll do a GMP two-fer today. Oftentimes, their odious posts travel in pairs, like scorpions. This one is from Hugo Schwyzer. Schwyzer apparently has an affinity for butch-looking athletic-type women, and he even married a woman who turned out to be a lesbian. Keep in mind, through this post Schwyzer’s point is to fawn over lesbians.
As he tells it, Schwyzer’s relationship with his second wife Courtney exhibited signs of poor sexual chemistry from the get-go:
…though she always begged me to come quickly once I was inside of her. She assured me it was because she got sore easily, and not because she didn’t like what we were doing. I wasn’t so sure. Eventually, we developed a reliable routine: I would go down on her and masturbate myself while I did so. It was the one kind of sex for which Courtney seemed eager, and I got pretty good at timing my orgasm to hers.
Via Wanna Serve tumblr
I wouldn’t pick on Schwyzer specifically for this. OK, I would, but I wouldn’t feel hostility towards Schwyzer while I did it. Just pity. Resorting to masturbation during cunnilingus; a man giving to a woman and giving to himself while the woman gives nothing: it goes without saying, this is the most extreme form of supplication imaginable and should be slapped out of the head of any man who thinks that this can occur in a normal relationship. My criticism of Schwyzer is that, for all of his discussion of relationships and sexuality, he sees no room to point out that men can assert themselves to avoid this type of supplicating behavior. The Good Man Project: turning men into dildos, sperm donors, and taxpayers.
Schwyzer and his wife stopped having sex altogether two weeks into their marriage.
Court [GLP: Still the pet name after all these years] and I hiked together, rescued dogs together, volunteered together. We held hands and hugged still, but it was clear that everything else was off limits. My wife offered a series of explanations and excuses; sometimes it was that she was too tired or stressed, other times it was that I had been “mean” or inattentive in some way. As in love with her as I still was, I assumed she was telling the truth. Eventually, it just became easier not to try. We joined the ranks of the sexless and married.
Lying, dishonesty, and emotional manipulation, but still no cue from Schwyzer – a relatively influential commentator on these matters – that a man should identify any of this behavior as a problem and then address it. This is the ultimate danger of a man with a gynocentric worldview. Everything is framed in terms of the woman; the woman’s needs come first and anything a man might want is secondary and usually goes unaddressed.
Via Ambidextrously Erotic
But twenty months into their sexless marriage, after a great welling of anger and hostility, Schwyzer capitulated:
I went back to drugs in the hope that that might show her how much pain I was in, particularly over the sexless state of our marriage. Court insisted I move out. I rented a room in a sober living boarding house, and soon began an affair with a housemate. After more than a year and a half of fidelity, I cheated with a woman who made it clear she wanted me. It was a cowardly, but understandable, way to get back at Courtney. I told my wife what I’d done, and she instantly demanded a divorce.
The point of the post, remember, is that Schwyzer has an affinity for dyke-y looking chicks. Despite so much meat in this story, Schwyzer provides no succor to men who may find themselves in such a marriage even though giving succor to the afflicted is Schwyzer’s stock-and-trade. So the ultimate criticism here is that Schwyzer, who holds himself up as some fiduciary of sexual and emotional justice, ignores a much larger and more important point about men and their sexuality to fawn over the masculinized feminine. All of this gets Schwyzer browny points among the people who are most crucial to fluffing his ego – Riot Grrls and Dworkin-schooled fem-bots.
All of this reminds us that “Good Men Project” is a pretty good title for that blog. The site is interested in creating these good men – good in their relations to women and children – rather than “happy men” or “content men” or “satisfied men”. Men are less useful in such states.
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Gosh, what a loser.
I’d rather sit in my basement watching porn and playing world of warcraft than be Hugo Schwyzer. What a fucking pussy.
I honestly cannot go to that website anymore. It just enrages me and I am unable to get anything done at work for the rest of the day. Hugo is a pussy and every writer on that website is a closet homosexual masquerading as a hetero worthy of giving advice to other men.
Maybe he’s gay?
It’s worth pointing out that women with ‘strong jaws’ are displaying signs of high testosterone during development, which is often associated with higher adult sex drive, not cold fish. It probably also comes along with a stronger desire for a man that is more dominant than average (the woman herself being more dominant).
It pleases me to know there is enough justice built into our world that men like this will be constantly miserable.
zatarra,
yes, i have the same response. i become visibly agitated reading that site – mostly because they have the audacity to pretend that they have one goal in mind while it is clear they have an entirely different one.
i really want to sit down with these people and just peer into their souls and see what they’re really all about and ask them a million questions.
k(yle),
schwyzer admits that he’s dabbled with other men.
A good man sustains a healthy relationship by being masculine not by being a doormat. The alternative isn’t good for the man and contra feminism isn’t good for the woman either.
what would be less mendacious and laugh-worthy about this is if hugo schwyzer acknowledged his particular sexual proclivities as atypical, instead of trying to normalize it, or make it prescriptive. i’ve also heard/read that he had fucked (“dabbled”) with other guys. hugo claims he’s an eira-sexual (after his wife’s name), which makes sense considering that his sexual patterns, habits, etc. make no consistent sense. the guy obviously has some hang-ups.
i’ve known two guys who have “dabbled” with other men, primarily dating women. they both acknowledge their own sexualities to be totally fucked and they were both raised in abusive households.
sofia,
schwyzer mentions in his piece that a college roommate psychoanalyzed him back in college by saying that schwyzer was afraid of hurting people with his sexuality therefore he avoided relationships with women. given that he’s said that his mother was a feminist, a strong case can be made that his mother demonized male sexuality to such a degree that schwyzer grew up with a complex over it.
i wish the guy would dig deep and look into those explanations, but to do so would, as you say, de-normalize his behaviors. instead, it all rose up within him – an evil, dirty man who has evil, dirty predilections. schwyzer is the poster-boy for modern men’s sexuality – all snarled and distorted by either an overt feminist agenda or one hidden in the cracks of society.
I think you guys are onto something. I think Hugo actually needs psychiatric help for his abnormal behavior whereas he, and some others, view him as someone that is helping other by giving useful advice. It may actually be some type of coping method for him to view his opinions and behaviors and normal and enlightened.
Zatarra,
If they corral themselves into this big group of people who are abnormally developed, they then become normal within that group. they then push forth in trying to get “normal” society to embrace their abnormal-normal group instead of the abnormal group adapting to larger normal society.
GMP is basically “Men, you need to shape up cause the women are suffering.”
He seems to be guilt ridden over something and is using that to prop woman up while beating men down.
The purpose of leftist sexual propaganda is to try to convince everyone (including themselves) that the small, loud minority of truly fucked-in-the-head sexual deviants are really representative of the entire population.
In other words, it’s trying to normalize something that’s fucked up.
“masturbation during cunnilingus…is the most extreme form of supplication imaginable”
I’m wondering how he managed to pull it off (pun, yay) since she had his hands cuffed behind his back. That he was also able to achieve simultaneous orgasm makes the feat all the more impressive.
The internet has just made this all worse as these abnormal types can find comfort in other strange folks withthe same sick tastes being on the net which makes them think it is perfectly normal. The Furry underground is pretty terrifying. I met a furry, and because of his furry Internet hook ups he had no clue that he was a deviant sicko. Whatver floats your boat, but don’t bring it up at my night before Thanksgiving party and expect to escape unscathed.
All I can say is wow. If thats legit (which I am sure it prob is) it surpasses even the worst pussy whipped guy I know by a Boston marathon.
I’m assuming the guy is an addict since he moved into a sober living house after he started using drugs (again). People who aren’t addicts don’t move into sober living houses.
I wouldn’t take advice from this guy on how to cross the street, let alone how to be a good man. Not only is he doormat, he doesn’t care enough about himself not to get high.
Schwyzer is just masquerading as a man. He is really androgynous manakin hired by feminists to make it look like they have widespread male support. In return he gets a daily mess of pottage as long as he keeps saying what they like.
The more I learn about this tool the more I am amazed that anyone on the planet takes him seriously. What an Aunt Tom.
yeah well thanks a lot, i was trying to eat
mebbe by tomorrow evening i can choke some crackers down
pls no more sex talk from Hugo Grrl
Fucking pathetic.
What a revolting creature!
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Yeah I tried to post a negative comment on the post GLP is blogging about here over and GMP, and it didn’t get past moderation.
That sites despicable.
Beyond pathetic. Unbelievable that she stopped letting him have even the supplicating entirely one way servicing of her sex with him two weeks back from their honeymoon, and he didn’t immediately divorce him.
*divorce her.
Doug,
Yeah, he was going to stay in the relationship until something happened which forced him to take the blame – at least in his distorted eyes in which he believes that men are the root of most evil. A man in such a situation would not be cowardly or wrong if he did any of these things: fuck another woman, get drunk and high, divorce the woman. All of those things are perfectly acceptable. What would have been the entire point of the marriage then?
Dear God. This guy makes RuPaul look macho.
Pornography on GLP?
That’s it, I’m dropping this site from my blogroll.
Intellectualism and porn just don’t go together.
“Hugo Schwyzer has taught history and gender studies at Pasadena City College since 1993″
And this is a major part of what’s wrong with America. This sick bastard shouldn’t be allowed anywhere near a classroom of children or young adults. “Gender studies”, please, it’s nothing but tax-payer supported hate and treason, and this is the sort of personality such “academic fields” (bwahahaha) attract. Our universities and colleges have become the fountainhead of our destruction.
Classic jewish paraphilia. His genes are wrought with sour corruption, and it’s a sad reminder a 3/4 positive racial admixture doesn’t cure the sickness (much like with Obama).
The best part is that riot-girls actually enjoy being dominated.
Not being dominate.
Which means, I’ll be the jerk fucking them when they’re young and hot, and Hugo can pick up the tab and support them when they’re old and useless.
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