The biggest irony for me about Jezebel’s whole “Racist Hipsters” piece was that one of my outspokenly non-racist “racist” friends showed up as a “Facebook like” for the piece. Websites show which of your Facebook friends like their posts, and this friend’s name showed up. I had to laugh because she fits into several of Jezbel’s “racist hipster” categories but probably doesn’t realize it. Irony spills from her triple soy latte.
I should explain this non-racist racist friend of mine. She’s actually my girlfriend’s friend. She’s white, and she’s proclaimed her love of black men with the words “I love black men”. I don’t care either way, but she doesn’t exclusively date black men and seemingly mentions her affinity for attention or gold stars. She’s also some sort of administrator for a college somewhere in the northeast and claims to be a feminist but is really good about getting people to pay for her food and drinks and other such things. She also performs Salt-n-Pepa’s “Shoop” every time she does karaoke.
One night while at a table with this girl, my girlfriend, and some of their girlfriends, this enlightened disciple of multiculturalism began making a spectacle of herself while telling a story about something I never remembered. She began cackling and yelling about someone or something being “Ghetto!” Multiple times. I was embarrassed in absolute terms, but I was also annoyed because a group of men who fit her description were sitting at the next table and staring over. I lamented this because if anything came of her loud-mouthery it would probably be me (the only guy at the table) who’d have to deal with the fallout (most bar fights ensue because one guy is angry at a woman but takes his anger out on a nearby guy in her stead).
Now, if someone asked me a pointed question about race, I’d provide some sort of realistic answer that might get me (incorrectly) pegged as a bigot. But I also don’t run around screaming “Ghetto” or using dog whistles or watch words to describe blacks in a stereotypical manner. But this white woman is safe because, you know, she’s “down”, she thinks. And because she thinks she’s down, she falls right into several of the categories listed in the Jezebel piece which really should spawn another piece about how it is white women who engage in this type of “racism” mroe than anyone. So part of me thinks the list is a pointless charade, but part of me enjoys the list because most of the people who think they are above what is being called racist actually fit Jezebel’s definition.
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If she marries and has children with a black man, I will believe her claim that she loves black men. Otherwise, she is just looking for attention.
How can you love any race of men or women as a collective? It’s a weird thing to say. Heidi Klum doesn’t go around talking like this. She fell in love with one black man, not a whole race.
Unfortunately Lara, things are different in America with certain women. My friend’s cousin (a white woman who exclusively dated and married/had children with black men) went on a local TV program featuring interracial couples. She mentioned how she only dated black men because white guys were “un-hip” or “not cool.” I can’t tell you how embarassed my friend and the rest of his family was. And, yes…she would think because she is “down”, she can get away with the worst racial behavior ever.
Lol these ppl are so full of shit. Do you think they really care about black ppl? I mean would you ever see any of these navel gazing urbanites mentoring poor black kids after work(like their nemesis GZ)? No, for them its all about adopting the most fashionable moral posture.
Doubly plus ironic is that blacks are the only group she talks about (with a minor nod to the Navajo), as if no other groups even existed. Exceedingly typical moral signalling.
I once told my father I thought black children were cute. He asked, “Do you want to own one?” It made me realize that talking about them that way was kind of dehumanizing.
LOL, if you need some black love just call me, Lara. But methinks you’re too busy slobbin on PA’s dick, LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
“Do you want to own one?”
Let me know if you do. I know a guy who knows a guy and he’s running a special right now.
Lara 05/02/2012 at 9:38 am
I once told my father I thought black children were cute. He asked, “Do you want to own one?” It made me realize that talking about them that way was kind of dehumanizing.
Or dehumanizing to the non black kids you felt were comparatively less cute.
Your dad could have asked – “Would you like to give birth to one?”.
Why didn’t he?
I should explain this non-racist racist friend of mine. She’s actually my girlfriend’s friend. She’s white, and she’s proclaimed her love of black men with the words “I love black men”.
That’s a White girl’s way of trying to punk you out as a White boy. She has contempt for your masculinity. She sees you as a safe/non threating White male.
I would never hang around with or date a girl who had a black fetish. Yuuck.
Since when are the words “ghetto” and “thug” problematic? Maybe I just don’t care if people think I’m rayciss.
Because he’s racist! *gasp*
“Unfortunately Lara, things are different in America with certain women. My friend’s cousin (a white woman who exclusively dated and married/had children with black men) went on a local TV program featuring interracial couples. She mentioned how she only dated black men because white guys were “un-hip” or “not cool.” I can’t tell you how embarassed my friend and the rest of his family was. And, yes…she would think because she is “down”, she can get away with the worst racial behavior ever.”
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If she belonged to a Muslim family, she’d be another honor killing statistic by now.
Once again, if you suspect a female close to you is about to racemix, just show her this flyer:
http://i.imgur.com/rpIcR.jpg
“She mentioned how she only dated black men because white guys were “un-hip” or “not cool.”
You know how Great Books For Men articulated “the one cock rule”? It means that a woman should only know one cock. This rule scales up: you choose black, you stay black 100%. No comfort or company from white men. No money or protection from white men. No pleasantries or courtesy from white men. Impose sanctions.
We do, BTW. Any ‘shark will confess to you that they get freezeouts from white people in public.
PA, what’s your opinion on white men who date Asian women?
I don’t have a principled quarrel with that, other than the fact of it straining our good will with Asian men. But I don’t think white women should date anyone of another race, and if they do, they ought to leave white society in toto.
I’ve got both gut level and principled objections to white females dating black males and particularly having children with them. Starting with the later, the kids will be considered black, not mixed but black especially by his family and relatives and grandparents, and by black society generally, certainly when the kid is going to school, and thereafter. They won’t look much like her, or her white parents. No thank you. They’ll be inducted into black culture and given a very hard time by their peers if they rest going there. Part of that black culture is a great deal of resentment towards whites, some hatred of them, belittling white achievements and emphasizing white “oppressions” and racism real, exaggerated, and fabricated. Halle Berry didn’t even acknowledge her white mother who was sitting in the audience and had entirely raised her after her black father abandoned the family when she was two, when she won her Oscar. Instead her acceptance speech was all about her blackness and what a victory this was for black women. No thank you. Plus even if the particular black guy is reasonably smart and not too aggressive the kids will likely regress in part towards the BLACK mean on those things. No thank you.
Plus gut level I just don’t like it and have zero interest in fighting that feeling whether black men or white leftists like it or not. I’ll note that all other races, with the partial exception of some varieties of Hispanics, are even more opposed to their daughters dating or especially having children by black men.
White men marrying East Asian women doesn’t bother me at all. The Eurasian kids are almost always considered mixed by both races and are often very good look, especially girls. Both are high IQ races and both have high intellectually and artistically achieving cultures. Both have built great civilizations.
@PA
Just an example:
In one of your previous posts, you mentioned that you occasionally see black fathers with white children at the playground, i.e. these men are dating the mothers and helping to raise kids whose white dads have left.
Do you really believe that women in that situation, women who are just trying to pull through deserve to be banished from white society? Is it right to freeze out a white woman and ignore the white man who walked out on his kid(s)?
R–
It’s a lot more likely that she kicked him out.
Sigh, what I’d give for me and Lara to have some hot interracial action.
*dreams*
That is all. Carry on,
@R The black male “helping” to raise another man’s child is as rare as the Unicorn. But if this ever does occur, most likely everyone involved is pure ghetto or prole, it’s very short-term, and the participants are in it for sex only.
I’ve never met a mixed white/east Asian American that wasn’t totally assimilated, nor have I ever had the sense that they had any dual loyalties to their Asian parent’s country of origin. The most common pairing being white male-Asian female results in children that are much more likely to assimilate the culture of their father, which I’ve seen examples of even among biracial white/Asian children raised in Asia by their white father. They are also probably much more likely to grow up and marry whites themselves.
The same isn’t true of mulattoes who will take after black culture regardless of which parent is black or even if the black parent is present, and as we can see with Barack Obama even if the majority of their formative years were spent outside of the US and largely sequestered from African-Americans. West African immigrants take on the affectations of American blacks.
All I get from mulattoes are a possibly smarter, better looking class of people that hate me and mine, which is a net negative.
Yes, I do freeze out mudsharks and so do most white men. White women that date black men fall into a handful of categories but the largest two are: fat chicks that can’t find a non-fat white man which are already beneath my interest anyway, and chicks looking for a cheap thrill from the potential danger, the bending of taboos, et cetera, which is beneath my contempt.
Any woman willing to cross a certain threshold to chase tingles needs to be written off.
Oh and the black man white woman divorce rate is considerably higher than among whites couples or white E. Asian ones, and so is the incidence and severity of domestic violence. When white women try to leave black men who have been abusive to them on cheated on them extensively, the much more often are in serious danger than when they leave a white husband or man they were living with.