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The Way the World Works

An Asian woman writes at XOJane about her “self-racism” which is exemplified by her tendency to only date white men.  White supremacy is to blame, according to her.

In a second piece explaining her first piece, the woman admits that she created a sort of composite of her negative feelings about dating Asian men (a riff off of Obama’s college girlfriend composites).  Apparently she thinks it’s not fair that an Asian immigrant or any minority feels pressure to conform to the prevailing culture and that through this pressure they fall victim to self-racism.

For a woman like herself whose family immigrated from China when she was three years old, I’d say tough shit.  What she now calls “self-racism” was once considered a strategy for assimilation into the prevailing culture.  But sociological mumbo-jumbo has so pervaded our discourse that this is now considered something other than a smart social strategy.

Imagine in a more tribal scenario the woman approaching the chieftain and whining to him that it really isn’t fair that she has to shack up with one of the young single men in the tribe.  “Then leave the tribe and rot on the plain.  Watch out for coyotes.”  You see, a “good” society, according to this woman, accommodates every single individual on their terms.  It does not judge them or force them to alter their self in any way in order to be successful in that society.

(h/t Dain Fitzgerald)

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36 Responses to The Way the World Works

  1. Mojo 09/08/2012 at 2:48 pm

    “An Asian woman writes at XOJane about her “self-racism” which is exemplified by her tendency to only date white men. White supremacy is to blame, according to her.”

    I have six inches of white supremacy for this very purpose.

  2. PA 09/08/2012 at 2:52 pm

    My casual experience with many black, Asian, and Hispanic women leads me to a straightforward conclusion: all non-white women want to date white men. The ones who are attractive enough to do so, do. Others stew in sour-grapes hate-whitey.

    In college I knew a stumpy, pancake-faced Chinese-born woman who had none of the qualities we think of when we think of hot Asian girls. She was single, and obsessively liberal and would not shut up about “racism.” At first she flirted hard with me, but I Just wanted to be friends, LOL. I later came to understand why she was so post-colonialism. And this is true of women of all races who are scorned by men they want: anger, punctuated by desperate flirtation.

    Jenny An is doing nothing more than bragging about her desirability in white men’s eyes. Like a feminist who ‘complains’ about being constantly hit on.

    The Asian girl who wrote

  3. Camlost 09/08/2012 at 3:16 pm

    She is so full of shit.

    There’s an enormous amount of 2nd-generation, Americanized Asian men here in the US who don’t share any “old country” values. She just wants a white guy because they make her feel exotic and special.

  4. The Dude 09/08/2012 at 3:17 pm

    @Mojo

    Your comment is the best one I’ve read on the interwebs in the last year.

  5. soren 09/08/2012 at 4:38 pm

    Here’s another good article from hypocritical feminists making what should be in their eyes “superficial” choices in partners.

    http://msmagazine.com/blog/blog/2010/05/27/sorry-man-youre-too-short-am-i-a-bad-feminist/

  6. JP 09/08/2012 at 4:41 pm

    I’m too lazy to read her article, did she call out white women for their racism? I had a white/japanese friend who took after his mother’s japanese side, was taller than me and he preferred asian women. Does that makes him racist? I generally figured it was because he preferred asian women and many white women aren’t going to give an asian nerd the time of day.

  7. Lara 09/08/2012 at 5:06 pm

    One fallacy in her article is her claim whites have higher SAT scores than Asians.

  8. Lara 09/08/2012 at 5:11 pm

    She sounds like an Asian American Princess.

  9. anti-racist 09/08/2012 at 5:30 pm

    “My casual experience with many black, Asian, and Hispanic women leads me to a straightforward conclusion: all non-white women want to date white men”

    Just keep telling yurself that

  10. Days of Broken Arrows 09/08/2012 at 5:35 pm

    @Soren: You might want to Google the picture of the woman who penned the Ms. Magazine article. Her not wanting to date short men is doing them a big favor, trust me. Ughghghg!

  11. Promoting Justice 09/08/2012 at 5:37 pm

    white boy pa is in a fantasy world scared of the tall strong Brothers. Our Intellectual Leader Anti-Racist drops the Truth on faggoty liars

  12. Mojo 09/08/2012 at 5:57 pm

    No woman wants to date a short man. This is a fact of life I am comfortable with, being a fairly tall man.

    It’s exactly the same as how no man wants to date a fat woman.

    I wouldn’t criticize women for not wanting to date short men, and I will jeer at them when they criticize me for rejecting fats. Basically I have the best of both worlds.

  13. Mojo 09/08/2012 at 6:03 pm

    “Just keep telling yurself that”

    Nah, my experience confirms it too … Asian women have vanilla fever. It’s cool though, if you’re a white guy who has yellow fever, like me.

    The silly Asian girl who wrote the article can convince herself it’s “self-racism” … what a crock, though. She could try to ignore her libido and purposefully date Asian guys she doesn’t find as attractive, but the cognitive dissonance between trying to not be “self-racist” and the obligation to pursue her lust object as a “sexually liberated woman” will eventually lead her back into the tender, forgiving, dominant arms of the white man and all his devious ways.

    Basically she would be better served thinking less hard, “self-racism” and “sexually liberated independent woman” are both false constructs, she really just needs to chillax. But then I guess there’s nothing to write about.

  14. Days of Broken Arrows 09/08/2012 at 6:41 pm

    After reading the articles and looking at her pics, I’m not buying her arguments. I see the opposite: Asian guys probably won’t date her, because she seems exhibitionist and a bit on the trashy side, not exactly qualities more traditional Asian men want in women they’re looking to start families with. She’s also pretentious as well with this pseudo-sociology mumbo jumbo, and I assume it puts of a lot of men, not just Asians.

  15. SWPL bait 09/08/2012 at 7:50 pm

    @Mojo So, you’re tall but only pack six inches? Kind of underwhelming the ladies there, bud.

  16. nick digger 09/08/2012 at 8:05 pm

    asians are limited to one child per couple.
    People of Whiteness are having lots of children.
    asian women increasingly want to have sex with White Men.
    The asian race is dying out.

  17. Anonymous 09/08/2012 at 8:20 pm

    African people can not feed themselves
    People of Whiteness wont feed them foreer
    African women are increasingly getting AIDS
    The black race is dying out

  18. Donny 09/08/2012 at 8:21 pm

    Hamster is “velly velly stlong” on this one, blaming the white devil patriarchy rather than herself for her hatred of her race.

    I live and work in an area with a lot of Asians, and they are blatantly racist big time, regardless of whether they are 1st or 2nd gen. But of course that has nothing to do with their culture or anything, it’s all about the white man! Hell, blaming whitey has worked for the other minorities, why not join in!

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  20. cecil henry 09/08/2012 at 11:17 pm

    Don;t like it–get out of my country and quit disparaging My racial identity and interests.

    YOu prefer white men— you both destroy their heritage and future if you breed with them, and of course admit that superiority by your choice.

    Either that or you’re just a fool and hypocrite. Which is it lady??

    Africa for the Africans, Asia for the Asians, White countries for EVerybody!!! NO?

    Diversity is just a codeword for anti-white. Anti-racism is just a codeword for anti-white.

  21. JustSayIt 09/09/2012 at 2:11 am

    East Asians are an unattractive people. White people are better looking and have better personalities, in general. That’s a fact people don’t want to admit although discussions like this are common among non-white people. It’s the elephant in the room. White people are the only group to have all natural eye and hair colors and have the lightest skin color. The facial morphology of white people is usually angular, not round or flat. Radical plastic surgeries along with hair dye, skin bleach and contact lenses are commonly used among East Asians to make themselves look more like white people. They also take European or Biblical names and imitate white people behaviors. One example of how East Asians have taken on European characteristics is the depictions of male leaders. Before East Asians always showed males leaders are grossly overweight, think of the Chinese Buddha. Now, in media they are shown are either normal weight or muscular which has long been how Europeans shown their male leaders.

    Another thing that is not talked about is romantic love. It’s something that only arose in Western Europe in the last one thousand years. An entire culture has been built around it. I think East Asian females want in on the fantasy of a guy falling in love with only her, thinking she is beautiful and having a fairy tale life. It’s something that never existed in East Asia. Marriages were practical. Wives were to help the husband and his family. Usually wives were older than their husbands.

  22. Mojo 09/09/2012 at 4:48 am

    “@Mojo So, you’re tall but only pack six inches? Kind of underwhelming the ladies there, bud.”

    Lonely feminist, your bitterness is showing.

  23. Mojo 09/09/2012 at 5:02 am

    I clicked over to the article and yeah, this one is pretty gross. My yellow fever is not activated.

    “The physical attributes of my ideal man? If we’re being stereotypical about it, well, I like geeky, scrawny and without muscles. I like effeminate.”

    Hahaha. She says this, then says she prefers white guys to Asians, wtf.

  24. soren 09/09/2012 at 7:52 am

    “No woman wants to date a short man. This is a fact of life I am comfortable with, being a fairly tall man.”

    I’m comfortable with it too, but I’m 5’9 1/2 which is an acceptable if not ideal height for most women.

    “It’s exactly the same as how no man wants to date a fat woman.”

    Well fat women are 90% of the time at least partly responsible for their fatness… and fat women can still find a man somewhere to bone them. There is really nothing comparable for men’s judgement of women when it comes to women’s judgement of men on height.

  25. Mojo 09/09/2012 at 9:14 am

    Soren: good point.

  26. anti-racist 09/09/2012 at 12:31 pm

    mojo has a 6 inch pecker. i am a fiver. black men pack 14 inches of meat AT LEAST

    most women prefer Black Men

    then Arabic or Latino men

    white men are considered the least attractive men

  27. Promoting Justice 09/09/2012 at 12:39 pm

    Speak the TRUTH !! But you are too modest Brother. We believe though that your Dick is big and your nuts are mighty. You may be white, but you have a Black Man dick. Why else would you be opposed to racism

  28. Mojo 09/09/2012 at 12:53 pm

    Actually anti-racist, white men are universally considered the most attractive men:

    http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/

    And caucasians actually have the largest penises, but blacks overestimate their own size the most. See these two graphs:

    http://www.sizesurvey.com/fig5.gif

    http://www.sizesurvey.com/fig6.gif

    Source: http://www.sizesurvey.com/

  29. Lara 09/09/2012 at 1:15 pm

    I wouldn’t say whites have better personalities than East Asians. We are a little different, on average, but not necessarily better.

  30. Anonymous 09/09/2012 at 2:21 pm

    To get a pretty white girl, all a white man has to be is above-average

    To get a pretty white girl, a black man has to be a celebrity or an alpha drug dealer

    Ergo, to women a regular white man equals a superstar black man

  31. SOBL1 09/09/2012 at 3:09 pm

    Chuck, did yuo see the other post on that site about the rape culture at Cornell? She mentioned some guy writing an op-ed using that term. There’s a ton of holes in her specific article. First, the supposed attack she experienced was in the north campus quad. She writes to say a guy in a hood tried to attack her with a stake in the north quad. There is no north quad. There is an open area on north campus, but there’s no way a guy is carrying a stake in that area and NOT be seen by 10 or so other people. There are probably 200 windows, a gym, a dining hall and other spots with people usually in place in that location. She outran him? What I will point out is that Cornell does have a history of faked attacks in the last 15 years. The most ridiculous was the black girl who said she was chased by townies in a truck through campus at 11pm. It made news but then died when the campus police couldnt make sense of her story or find any witnesses on the 1.5 mile path she ran (outran a truck). There was a faked black on asian meancing threat, and there have been others. Usually, they pop up when a ‘studies’ center or dept is low on funds.

  32. miss c 09/09/2012 at 5:55 pm

    Sorry, I be lovin the short guys. When we’re nose to nose his toes is in and when we’re toes to toes his nose is in!

  33. collapseofman 09/10/2012 at 2:54 am

    I have not found this. In Asian women, it would not surprise me. In all others, I believe you are misreading the shit end of the “alpha fucks, beta bucks” stick.

  34. Nikos 09/10/2012 at 6:02 am

    PA,

    My casual experience with many black, Asian, and Hispanic women leads me to a straightforward conclusion: all non-white women want to date white men. The ones who are attractive enough to do so, do. Others stew in sour-grapes hate-whitey.

    This is true of Anglo-Nordic men, or of sultry Romance-Medit men (Italians, Spanish, Greeks).

    But Slavic men? No way.

    I have never seen a Slavic man with an attractive non-Slavic woman, even a non-Slavic white. All whites are not equal.

    Eastern Europeans and East Asians are the two groups of women who go most outside of their own groups, and the two groups of men who virtually never pull an attractive woman from outside their own group.

    That is also why there are so many mail-order brides from EE and the FSU, despite these places not being that poor. When even semi-prosperous countries like Ukraine, Russia, and Poland have mail-order brides, that tells you how much betatude their men have.

  35. miss c 09/10/2012 at 12:04 pm

    The men in the dominant culture are always the most attractive to women. If I went to China to say, teach, I would soon start to find Chinese men attractive. Even when men occupy a country, some women will be more attracted to the occupiers than they will to their own emasculated men, especially if the occupiers wear cool uniforms. My boss was a marine and his girlfriend was a half-Maori from New Zealand who saw American soldiers during WWII when she was a girl and decided she wanted one of her very own.This is biology in effect. White guys who are attracted to Asian women are simply following a biological imperitive to diversify their gene pool by not mating with women who look too much like themselves. The strange thing is, Korean men have always been more attractive and manly than Chinese men. Even the Chinese-American girls I work with are all gaga over the Korean male soap stars.

  36. Anthony 09/10/2012 at 2:47 pm

    I like how in the first picture she shows off that she can open her mouth big enough to suck white cock.

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