Hugo Schwyzer is the feminist community college circuit equivalent of Dr. Drew Pinsky. Lately he’s been pushing a porn class he’s been teaching at his community college, and now he’s over at The Atlantic trying really hard to make this schtick stick. The premise for his class is based on a lie:
…my students examine the limitations of familiar feminist anti-porn critiques. Research suggests that nearly as many young women as men watch (or, if you prefer, “use”) porn for masturbation fodder, making it increasingly difficult to characterize porn watching as a primarily male pastime. Women aren’t just swelling the ranks of porn consumers—they’re also increasingly directing and producing erotic entertainment that reflects a decidedly feminist vision.
Is this at all true? Reading that and just being aware of the world, one suspects that research showing that “nearly as many” women as men consume porn is not looking at the overall time spent using it. That sweeps a lot of information under the rug and doesn’t clue us in to the strength of the preference for porn. You don’t have to look far to find time use research. One Danish study (and Denmark is not a sexually conservative country) finds vast differences in how men use porn compared to women.

Those disparities are huge. Nearly six times as many men than women use porn more than 3 times per week. Nearly 70% of men and only 18% of women use porn more than once a week. When women do use porn, it is more likely to be alongside a partner which indicates that some of women’s porn use is a byproduct of men’s desire to consume porn. This isn’t to celebrate men watching porn or ignore that over-reliance on porn has negative effects, but to point out that Schwyzer’s class is misguided if it doesn’t think of porn as being a very male-oriented endeavor. And women being big users of porn is crucial to Schwyzer’s class because if porn was just something that men liked Schwyzer wouldn’t be interested in it. It would be like teaching a class about football. So Schwyzer has an interest in making it seek like porn is a girl thing too. But it’s really not.
There’s also a snippet from one of Schwyzer citations which doesn’t provide much support to his claim. Good editing, Atlantic:
Overall, women were still far less assiduous watchers than men, with only five percent of porn consumers watching frequently — once a month or more — against 34 percent of men.
Another 13 percent watched a few times a year, compared to 29 percent of men.
Frequent women viewers were younger, making up 17 percent of under-25s against less than five percent of the over-35s. And women with no sex experience were the most eager, making up a third of all regular viewers.
Based on a representative sample of 1,101 people aged 18 and over, the study was commissioned by Marc Dorcel, a provider of pornographic content, to mark the launch of a new porn site targeting the women’s market, Dorcelle.com.
And we always know what Schwzyer is about. Granting women free rein which he doesn’t allow for men:
I don’t need to pry, however, to hear stories—as I invariably do—about confusion, guilt, and fears of “addiction” to porn. Millennials may be more tolerant of sexual diversity than earlier generations, but many grow up in homes where masturbation—which is, after all, almost inextricably linked with pornography viewing—is still seen as shameful or sinful. Many worry that they watch porn too much, or watch the “wrong kind,” while quite a few have had bitter arguments with romantic partners over the ethics of porn use in a committed relationship.
This sounds different than the Schwyzer I’m familiar with. The Schwyzer I know holds men to a different standard than women. The Schwyzer I know writes stuff like this:
If a man can’t get off to a fantasy in his head (if he’s in a relationship, preferably about his partner) then he’s had a rather sad failure of imagination.
And this:
I’ve heard from many guys who tell me that they lie about porn (and the other kinds of sex they may buy) because, as one put it to me, “women go ballistic when you tell them the truth.” But it’s not women’s job to ratchet down their anger in order to make it safe for men to get real. We owe it to the women we love – and to ourselves – to have the courage to name what it is we’re doing and how often we’re doing it.
If a woman lies about something (like about the paternity of her child) then she has every good reason in the world to do it; if men lie about something then they’re callous. The truth is that in relationships men feel more shame than women about using porn (when unattached men are talking in general about porn – or porn in the abstract – they are less guarded in talking about their porn usage, but when they are *really* talking about their porn habits, they are more likely to evade the question). This pressure mostly arises because since the man uses it more often he can be painted as an addict. Women are less likely of being accused of being addicts of anything though.
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